Like everyone, I too enjoyed my freedom living
Australian way of life free of constraints embracing my freedom to live a
fulfilled life. Like every immigrants, I respected the law, appreciated for
allowing me to be part of its society and sworn in to pay my allegiance during
citizenship ceremony. Like every immigrants, I was pressured to renounce my
parental given name, of course, voluntarily as you might think, to a more
simplistic, fitting and the familiarly known Anglo-Saxon name in order to earn
a decent assimilation. Like all immigrants who came to this country, of course,
with the exclusion of the first arrivals, I didn’t change the nation’s culture,
names of places, natives & decimate existing ones except enhancing a
rainbow of multinational or multicultural aspirations conducive to living in
harmony.
I too agree that
racism, unfortunately, has been confirmed as a learned behaviour and it starts at a very young age.
We all have
been following traditional & cultural lines of misguided or the not so favourablepractices of faith or many sorts that our fore parents did for the
same motives.
There will be
times when we shouldn’t compromise our core values, our integrity, and we should
have the moral responsibility to speak up in the face of injustice.
Talking about
moral responsibility, Waleed is a man who really understands and able to put
himself in others shoes with no hesitation, because he’s been, you name it,
through it all and has the tenacity, resilience and determination to speak up about
any confronting situations to educate and change any harsh conditions in our
society.
Waleed has given
a thorough assessment of the naming, shaming and prejudices of labelling
different racial and religious groups causing tragic incidents, similar to the
Christchurch Mosque massacre, later changed to “Christchurch Terror Attack” in
the media, in New Zealand, by prominent figures and society in general.
Waleed, like other
believers a devout Muslim, said, struggling with emotions, “I’m gutted, I’m
scared, and I’m overcome with utter hopelessness.”
Waleed Aly's powerful reaction to Christchurch Mosque attack
This disgruntled
racist and white supremacist killer wasn’t called a terrorist. Mind you, the
media calls him with all sorts of different names as described, but terrorist.
Think about that! Don’t misinterpret my views that I’m in no way sympathizing
with anyone who commits crime and let alone destroy human lives as our human
birth is very rare and precious and a conceit to be finished in such a
vindictive way.
Today, it’s not enough to create change at the level
of symptoms and structures. We need to work together even more deeply to change
the underlying paradigms of thought and to connect with our deeper sources of
creativity and self.
The process of unifying people is difficult and the
road to agreement is often littered with the debris of historical grievances,
animosity and resentment.
However, any failure can be turned into an
opportunity to learn and grow. I say it can, because it requires a particular
attitude to benefit from our failure. Without that mentality, all our failures
will go to waste. This is true in political affairs as it is in personal life
for a leader as well as a follower. So what is that mentality?
It is a mentality that is willing and able to
reflect on past experiences, past actions and their outcomes. It is only
through such reflections that one learns one’s strengths, weaknesses and the
environment and conditions in which actions were undertaken and what could have
been done differently that could have resulted in a positive outcome. It is not
enough to admit collective failure. One needs to evaluate one’s role in the
failure.
A United Kingdom
Prime Minister, Winston Churchill, said, the Palestine Royal Commission in
1937, the following remarks: “I do not
agree that the dog in a manger has the final right to the manger even though he
may have lain there for a very long time. I do not admit that right. I do not
admit for instance, that a great wrong has been done to the Red Indians of
America or the black people of Australia. I do not admit that a wrong has been
done to these people by the fact that a stronger race, a higher-grade race, a
more worldly wise race to put it that way, has come in and taken their place.”
These days in
age, we don’t need guns and weapons of mass destruction to change course of
history, by sharing practical concepts as an interconnected society, we can
write and re-write anything until we get it right, peacefully. Nevertheless,
this is a wakeup call for all humanity and government officials to take heed
and reaffirm the responsibility for their own actions or face this ongoing
inevitable fate again & again for generations to come. I’m not violent or
inciting violence, but commenting my own assessment as I’ve lived through this
and all sorts of incidents, war and cruelty and demanding for change.
A Philosophical Poet, John Donne, wrote, “No man is
an island.” an expression emphasizing a person's connections to his environs. But
we failed to follow that expression. Similarly, another South African
philosophy of UBUNTU which roughly
translates to human kindness towards others is the belief in a universal bond
of sharing with all humanity replaces the simple greeting of ‘How are you?’
with the more sentimental response ‘I’m well if you are well.’
Simple greetings and sorry expressions shouldn’t be
a very hard act to follow. I have tried my best to break that cycle whenever
I’m confronted with one. If I sound harsh and uncompromising in my deliberations,
it is a reflection of the level of my frustration, and I kindly ask readers to
take it as an honest expression of an emotional plea to the likes of our beer
culling culture & our country’s highly educated elites to be honest, to
show their respect and to give their best.
We’ve the choice
to live together in harmony or continue to live in a world of hate and
inequality.
Let’s anticipate
eliminating shared problems that have entrenched us for so long by redefining the
way we perceive its symbolic grounds without blaming others. If we do so by
using all of our senses, we may empathize rather than trivialize.
As always, good
piece of work, Waleed.
Condolences to
all the people who have lost their loved ones
If you want to change the way you feel, you’ve got to
change the way you think.
TO YOUNG GENERATIONS
To our young generations including my children,
don’t worry whatever you have done so far as it’s part of discovering to find
the path to your life’s blue print. I’m not here to sermon anybody, but sharing
my extensive experiences that shaped me till this day, gave me the grit &
tolerance to survive and thrive in different countries and cultures after I
left my maternal country leaving my families and friends behind at the age of
24, having no one to turn to.
Can you hear me?
Don't allow anybody to make you feel that you're nobody. Always feel that you
count. Always feel that you have worth, and always feel that your life has
ultimate significance.
You must listen
and respect the words of the elderly and your parents’ as they have been where
you’re now and been through all the smart things you’ve been trying to
outmaneuver them. You must also stop blaming your families for all your actions
and everything that happened to you as a result. Everyone, including your
families, has their own upbringing that turned out to be a vicious generational cycle. More on that later!
You must also remember
to carefully monitor the people or friends you connect with otherwise you’ll be
ruptured, tortured & scarred for life. More importantly, don’t let modern
day tech gadgets come between you & human interactions. You’ve to know
when, where and how to use them rationally. You must remember that all your past
actions can’t be your destiny as you have an ability to change and go on living
mindfully.
So, make no mistake, we can’t control what has
happened in the past, which shaped the brain we have today, programmed our
cells, and caused certain genes to switch on. However, we do have the power in this moment and going
forward to choose our perspective and behaviour, which will change our understanding and our destiny.
We can’t afford
to dwell on our differences. It is not sufficient when someone merely
acknowledges, regrets, or apologizes for something they have done. Change in
our perception is very essential in the family, community & society, in
whatever level of services we’re dealing with, whether sports, welfare or
community organizations or day to day interactions to be able to acknowledge
and appreciate the efforts of individuals and most of all paying our gratitude
for their services unreservedly.
Also, the safest way to live your life is by doing
the right thing. If you do the CRIME, it’s a matter of time, you’ll get caught
and you’ll do the TIME.
Make this day a day that will change your life and be
prepared to take each of your friend’s, unjustified actions and undesirable life
experiences seriously and if you are going through some painful times, speak to
your closest family or friends who will give you a helping hand and most
importantly, inform your doctor.
ROACHFORD - THIS GENERATION LIVE
TO
MY GENERATIONS
To my generations, we need to break free from the vicious
generational cycle negative emotions of the past &
outdated beliefs of generational scenario, inherited collective mind patterns
that have kept our parents & ancestors in confinement, without blaming
& shaming the conditions created so much of their suffering for eternities
and manifesting in our misery today.
There will be
times when we shouldn’t compromise our core values, our integrity, and we will
have the responsibility to speak up in the face of injustice and do all that we
can to survive without resentment.
To do so
extended families and our society need to cultivate and nurture the concept of
diversity helpfulness and social cohesion rather than individualistic
hatemongering approach that serves no purpose to anyone.
To appreciate how playing with the fire of racial
hatred is so tense with unintended consequences, it will be good to remember
that mutual recognition is a precondition for social trust. A sense of
self-worth by any group in society is only partially internal; it also depends
on the willingness of other competing groups in society to acknowledge the
worth of the other. It’s time that we attentively and sympathetically watch and
listen to the ambitions of the younger generations carefully and guide them succinctly.
Our marginalized
future young generations are in desperate need of model leadership and guidance
from the vast societal structure that are capable of mentoring the new
generations into the new direction with improved possibilities without racial
divisions, profiling and the rhetoric vision of status quo-business as usual.
There is no
stronger weapon against inequality and no better path to equal opportunity than
an education that unravels our genetically given potential for young people.
The wave of
crimes committed by young people, pigeonholed and racially profiled as organised gangsters, is a testament to unimaginable injustices
and treatments they have endured during their course of growing up in a totally
different and rapidly changing social trends.
This cry for
help by those juveniles committing various offences amounts to disappointments,
frustrations and inability to see their full potential is attainable in their
unconducive environments, in which they live, to gain equal access to
opportunities that are available to others in order to create conventional
possibilities for themselves and the community in which they live, is becoming
bleak.
If few people
are benefiting while the majority are struggling, it would be a zero sum game,
if not disintegrating and inhumane. That’s exactly what’s being perceived by
our underprivileged and our dispirited younger generations in the so called
multicultural society, who didn’t have a strong mentors and supporting group in
our community.
We are all
making our contributions regardless of commendations, acknowledgements,
appreciations and validations of our efforts, to improve any ongoing social,
political and personal dilemmas in our community. Those contributions are
somehow used by individuals in assisting and advancing their actions for a
better outcome. That’s morally a good feeling!
Everybody’s
views should be represented and valued irrespective of their background, race, colour, religion, status and academic preferences.
These days and
age, it’s
not enough to create change at the level of symptoms and structures. We need to
work together even more deeply to change the underlying paradigms of thought
and to connect with our deeper sources of creativity and community.
Make no mistake,
the time is ripe, in order to tap all the opportunities and possibilities that
are available to a communal society like that of ours, and if we want to change
the way we feel, we’ve got to change the way we think.
Like my
generations, I grew up in a multi-ethnic culture and loved it deeply to this
day. Unlike some of my generations, learning a positive attitude towards life
goes a long way in achieving knowledge and mental peace and thereby keeping me
stress free. I quickly transformed myself to be able to adapt with the rapidly
changing social order and beliefs without stubbornly staying with my old
traditional social creeds.
I stand back but
not remain silent and don’t let the daily hassles grind me down. It’s too easy
to become angry and cynical. There are millions of reasons and excuses not to
do things without hating anybody.
Like every
families, we hear and see the plight of family disintegrations in the social
media hyped generation. We need not dread but accept this trend as a customary
now and see it as common disorderly and uncontrollable scenes.
It is incumbent
upon us, the older generations, to appreciate more and resent less, to
encourage and support the interaction of young people and to undertake tasks
and discussions of the like organized by local communities and various
institutions to strengthen their mentoring schemes carefully and efficiently.
The least we can do is to refrain from infecting these young people with hatred
towards each other. Instead let us earnestly tell them of the good and bad
times of our own stories and our determination to get ahead on our long journey
to pursuing our success up to where we are today to enrich their journey.
Remember, we may
not have the prestige of celebrities, the power of Pope or all other academic
luminaries, but our differences of opinions and stories are unique and equally
valued, effective and say something no one has expressed before. They may not
be accepted, openly communicated, appreciated & validated, but are genuine commitments
and opinions of noble thoughts that must be shared with everyone
unconditionally and impartially.
It’s TIME FOR
CHANGE, let’s accept what is, let go of what was, and have hope &
conviction in what will be.
Anybody or any
leaders in the new generations are well informed and capable of accessing
helpful & informative ideas thanks to the internet technology and the
availability of free social media interactive information.
This testimonial
is demonstrated by the election of current new breed of leaders, like the Ethiopian
Prime Minister, human right activists and all others passionately involved in
various parties and justice activities, around the world. These people amassed
more facts and figures and most importantly educated themselves about the
acceptable resolutions to proficiently manage all the problems that are causing
their multiethnic societies to pity against each other.
It’s so distinctive
that everything the Ethiopian Prime Minister, political parties and other
activists have been articulating, from their individual personal changes to tirelessly
campaigning and promoting unity in diversity with forgiveness with no vengeance,
has been mentioned.
More importantly,
the emergence of the term ‘Medemer’
or ‘to be counted’ and ‘Ethiopiawinet’phenomenon, which have
all been commented in a diversified expressions (various terminologies) on
blogs and social medias, has been termed differently during successive revolutions
or changes in the country. The notion of Ethiopia Tikedem -‘Ethiopia
first’ & ‘to be counted’ task
is the same. The fallout of the former was putting it into practice.
ETHIOPIA TIKEDEM
Now, we’re moving
forward with openness with renewed ideology, vigor, freedom, peace,
forgiveness, love and all the poignant words we’ve never heard before, we’re,
hopefully, on the right ship sailing as one people in the right direction.
Our new young
generations need to be informed and learn more from our historical revolutions
than totally discrediting contributions of our strong generations.
I want readers
to know that I’m not suggesting that everyone has been to these sites, but it’s
most likely that like some of us, our shared ideologies, what we all have
cherished eventually come to a crossroads reflecting our mutual intentions
yearning to achieve the same welfares, ethics and principles to attain the
ultimate transformations on a personal level or collectively.
I
hope you think and focus on the message not the messenger and you don’t spend
too much time analysing the title ‘Ethiopia Tikdem’ (Ethiopia First) which was associated
with the former Derg –military government. Although, the message mantra was by
far a superior ambition, they failed to put it in practice. We can redeem that
now!
Like everything else, in life, change is a vital
course of existence. We all change as times go on, so is the rebuilding of the
nation after natural devastation, invasion and unification with another nation.
Whatever happened ages ago are history; whether it’s subjugation, isolation,
corruption, migration or invasion, it can’t be redeemed. It’s redemption time.
What we can do now is to change that course of isolation,
exploration, displacement, massacre, incarceration, torture, starvation, domination,
association, or whatever we want to call it, with sincere gesture of reconciliation,
forgiveness and appreciation to bring back everything that’s Ethiopian.
ETHIOPIA TIKIDEM
Change entails new way of thinking, doing and being.
These days in
age, we don’t need guns, weapons of mass destruction and separations to change
course of history, by sharing practical concepts as an interconnected society,
we can write and re-write anything until we get it right, peacefully.
We need to
cultivate and nurture the concept of cultural helpfulness and social cohesion
rather than our individual intelligence.
Nobody can
control what has happened in the past which may have caused certain
inconceivable factors to happen, but we have the resources & power at this
moment and move forward to choose and plan what we can do to change things for
the better.
The diverse
political groups, individual actors, intellectuals and political activists must
realize that the future of the Ethiopian state would only be solved via continued
dialogue, negotiation & cooperation.
All Ethiopian
ethno-nationalist groups must be considered integral actors in the changing
process and all negotiation procedures occupying the place they deserve on the
reconciliation and compromise issues.
Today, looking
at the history of ethno nationalist movements such as EPRP, the Pan-Ethiopian
nationalist movements emerged as inclusive political organizations, TPLF and
EPLF, the rebellions with ethnic grievances as their agenda, that mostly
emerged from Tigrigna speaking highlands as well as OLF, the Oromo Liberation
Front arose as rebel organizations that are exclusive to their ethnic groups’
interests and their ethnocentric views, Ethiopia’s contemporary history shows
that despite some political actors affiliated with such movements have come to evolve
in their views of what the Ethiopian state should be. It is crucial to
reminisce that these organisation’s political platforms remain embedded within their old
ethnocentric agendas.
Autonomy for
ethnic federal system was a self-gratifying fraught with conflicts denying
fundamental freedom, human rights, economic and social opportunity and
democracy to the vast majority of Ethiopians.
Ethnic federal
system lent itself to manipulation by federal, regional and local authorities
to serve TPLF/EPRDF government’s narrow economic, financial and political
purposes and gave them carte blanche authority to erode bonds among Ethiopia’s
diverse population.
It is time that all Ethiopians, academics, experts and
laypeople take the initiatives to stop incessantly criticizing, forming
fragmented organizations, activism as Amhara, Oromo, Annuaki, Somali or other.
The potential outcome of a united group and advocacy is far greater.
Some of our
scholars, I mean some, goes to the extreme argumentations and reflect gloomy
perspectives to say nothing nice but repulsively criticize, denigrate,
contemplate and spread their agnostic and ineffectual assessments that are
obstacle to changes.
I said some
because some individuals and intellectuals ultimately using our old mindset to
do business while some are flexible to change and show a sense of optimism,
opportunity and encouragement persistently. While the latter deserve unreserved
commendations for their contributions for instigating a peaceful change in our
country, we can still encourage the former to join peacefully.
Furthermore, unless
all of our people agree on the principles, values and structures that are
essential to implement the key ingredients ofinclusive values and principles, there will never be peaceful
efforts to reform our nation.
"LOVE YOUR ENEMIES"
We must
recognize that the most powerful weapon against any brutal government is unity
and collective action. When the people unite, there is nothing they cannot
achieve. The need for unity and transformation is greater than
ever and all efforts must be made to bring people together in the pursuit of
freedom through democracy, rule of law, justice and equality to achieve a real change.
The quest for
freedom and change is steadily enduring and we all must stand together for
fundamental change in a global village.
“YES WE CAN”,
Obama’s “unlikely” story has a resemblance to that of our own Obama, Abiy Ahmed’s
“Ethiopiawinet”. He is not just making rhetorical talks, but obviously building
up the bases for change instead of jumping the crocodile to build the ceiling.
Everything he’s done so far agrees with my own perception for change.
Therefore, I take my hat off to him and do my part to help him achieve his
mission for change.
"YES WE CAN"
Here is a
meritorious resemblance of the lives of the two most popular leaders, Obama and
Abiy, from two different but friendliest countries.
Barack Obama, USAAbiy
Ahmed, Ethiopia
Barack Obama was born in Honolulu, Hawaii,
United States, in 1961. His mother is Stanley Ann Dunham, an American, English
descent and His father is Barack Obama, Sr., from Kenya, Africa. Obama grew up
without a father. His father returned to Kenya and saw Obama only once before
dying in an automobile accident in 1982 and Obama’s mother lived in Hawaii
before dying of ovarian cancer in 1994.
Of his early childhood, he described his
struggles as a young adult to reconcile social perceptions of his multiracial
heritage.
Obama has seven half siblings from his Kenyan
father's family, six of them living, and a half-sister with
whom he was raised.
Obama was a Christian whose religious views
developed in his adult life. In The Audacity of Hope, he describes his father
as “raised a Muslim”, but a “confirmed atheist” when his parents met. Through
working with black churches as a community organizer while in his twenties, he
came to understand “the power of the African American religious tradition to spur
social change”.
Obama met, his wife, Michelle Robinson when
he was employed as a summer associate at the Chicago law firm and were married
in 1992 and have two wonderful daughters together.
Obama graduated from law school and served as
a professor of constitutional law and served as community organizer, senator
and finally as President of the USA, the highest office in the land, The
Whitehouse.
Abiy Ahmed was born in Agaro town, Jimma Zone,
Oromia Region, Ethiopia, in 1976. His father, Ahmed Ali, is a Muslim and his
mother, Tezeta Wolde, a Christian who passed away, like Obama’s mother, without
seeing her son’s highest accomplishment. Like Obama, Abiy Ahmed also never
habituated to seeing his father and he is the youngest of 6 siblings.
Abiy Ahmed, like Obama, was a product of two racial
families with different beliefs and lifestyles. Like Obama, he grew up with his
mother and amassed huge perseverance, resilience, and considerable self-discipline
to succeed in a racially and culturally competitive upbringing.
Abiy, is married to Zinash Tayachew and have three
daughters together, He met his wife while both were serving in the Ethiopian defence
forces and reached the rank of Lieutenant Colonel.
Like Obama, he’s a new breed of generations: a
successful scholar in various professions, smart, witty, articulate,
persuasive, humble, compassionate and humanitarian and has a quality &
fine-looking, qualified and suitable to his current position.
Barack & Wife Michelle Obama Abiy Ahmed with Wife Zinash Tayachew
Like Obama, he appeals to the people to work together,
“from the ground up”, not the other way around as this development was
undeniably not reflected in the past successive government practices, thus, appeared
to recycle status quo manifestations in our history.
Like Obama, Abiy
is the man who really understands and able to put himself in others shoes with
no hesitation, because he’s been, you name it, through it all and has the
tenacity, resilience and determination to change any harsh conditions fronting
our country, certainly, with our persistent support not defamation.
I
applaud him for his gestures of reconciliation and inclusion and I regret to
say many of us in the diaspora have not publicly responded in kind.
It’s
my deepest & foremost wish the country that I love will also change the
national flag emblem with Ethiopian symbolism and ultimately choose its own
democratic system of government and change all divided regions of the country
by borders and people with identifications and restore the unity and
Ethiopiawinet that have been uniquely Ethiopian values for centuries.
NEW ETHIOPIAN FLAG
Ancient united Ethiopian map Recently divided regions
United we can repair the pain
Today, it’s not enough to create change at
the level of symptoms and structures. We need to work together even more deeply
to change the underlying paradigms of thought and to connect with our deeper
sources of creativity and self in a heterogeneous society.
What is your life's blueprint?
Let’s accept what is, let go of what was, and have
hope & conviction in what will be.
I am so elated in a long time, with the nomination
of the new Prime Minister and hopefully, he will be re-elected again by the
people. I feel the winds of changes are really propelling our way, peacefully.
“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step” –Lao Tzu.
Need I say changing one thing at a time; Abiy certainly will surprise all his
challengers.
Please, contain yourself from being hatemongering
and antagonist for having or presenting my views different than yours and
making any assumptions to judge me for what I stand for because whatever I wrote
here wouldn’t be a characterization of my persona.
We all can have different opinion without
contentions. It’s just my genuine insights, observations, thought provoking suggestions
and propositions for the change we need and I don’t mean to offend anyone for
no apparent reasons.
Most importantly, I send my greatest admirations to
our youths who have sacrificed their lives and those who continued to make
their voices for change amid their disrespectful spirits, the way the new Prime
Minister is handling the adjustments, every now and then. My absolute
admiration and appreciation also goes to my fellow Ethiopians –activists, all
opposition party affiliates and homeland loving people everywhere and those loyal
supporters in the diaspora who have used the technology to spread vital
information to our people to bring democracy and justice for all with
courageous demonstrations and persistent calls for equality and Ethiopiawinet.
We’ve
the choice to live together in harmony or continue to live in a world of hate and
inequality.
As one nation, we rise together as one people.
Let’s all watch each other’s back and more importantly
that of the Prime Minister!
I have embraced all manners of esoteric arts, natural therapies, traditional forms of medicines, mind & body works, only to come up with nature's simplest of all remedies: rest & sleep, it has taken me all my life time to make peace with the enlightenment of rest & good sleep. I was the change that I was looking for in the wrong places at the wrong time.
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