WE ALL ARE ETHIOPIANS

As a true blue Ethiopian, and a person of the Ethiopian Diaspora, it upsets me to see our people, all Ethiopians, keep steering for our individual differences instead of appreciating and coming together for our collective enrichment. I don't know about you, but hollering about our ethnic culture, trying to earn distinction as Gondere,Menze, Amhara, Tigre, Oromo, Guragie or ya addisabba lij, bragging about our ethnic superiority, to one another, has not earned us one break in life. We all, some of us, work like everyone else to make ends meet, if I missed a social club that offers benefits of being of a "special" ethnicity or culture, please someone let me know. Assuming that there is no such club, why then do we constantly go out of our way to elevate our egos at the expense of other Ethiopian ethnics.

While the unfortunate many are living in impoverished states of Ethiopia: Tigray, Oromia, Amhara, Harare, etc., the blessed minority of us, whether in Australia or elsewhere, are obsessed about our ethnic individualism instead of coming together to revive our respected country. We have been blessed with the gifts of intellect and ambition necessary to advance our cause; instead we use these gifts to attack each other. Trust me, you are not helping out the average Ethiopian by constantly disparaging your supposed enemy; the only thing you are doing is enabling the power hungry government and individuals who uses these differences to enrich themselves at the cost of other people.

It's easy to attack someone in the abstract, to denigrate a very weak individual, but next time you feel like uttering a word of hatred, regardless of your nationality or ethnicity, look at the ethnic, Ethiopian, woman in the store with two kids who did nothing to you, your words are aimed at her the same as they are at your supposed enemy.
Look at the, ethnic, Ethiopian, man who is working midnight shift driving taxis or trams or buses or working in the factory, trying to put his children in college, your words of hostility are wedged at him the same way they are wedged at your weak opponent.
Look at the, ethnic, Ethiopian child who is trying hard to attain the Australian dream, your word of contempt target her/him as much as it targets some powerless challenger.

We all know that there have been historical injustices and that no one ethnics’ hands come out totally clean, but how many generations we have to fight the same battles before we call a ceasefire. We should not be captivated by the sins of our fathers or the bitterness of past generations. The hurtful venom that is discharged in the name of ethnic pride is nothing but empty rhetoric that diminishes our collective aspirations and dreams.
The fingers of the hand are weak, you can’t clap with one hand, nor can a thumb by itself build a house, working together, they can move mountains, clenched they become a powerful force to protect our shared rights.

Imagine if we are united together in Australia to advocate for policies that advance our community and collective interests instead of denigrating each other’s achievements and personal journeys in life.

A perfect example would be, as my Ethiopian-Australian friends would certainly acknowledge, that they collectively supported my strong commitment and determination to establish the first Ethiopian Community Association in Victoria in 1985.
From there on, we strengthened our unity and established the first African Soccer Club comprised of various Ethiopian ethinc groups and Africans playing soccer match competitions every Sunday in the Amateur Soccer League of Victoria. Read more: https://timeforchangesociety.blogspot.com/2012/11/the-commencing-of-african-soccer-clubs.html

Why it all fall apart? What caused all the divisions? We need to understand our failings and learn from it, if we have to make a democratic community respecting our diversity which was my basic principles to form a community that entails all Ethiopians irrespective of our differences.
It is a very disenchanting story to see the downfall, why we all allow or agreed to disengage our communal and fraternal pursuit for enjoyment of life by creating divisions amongst ourselves. We should appreciate those who have helped us to succeed in our personal and business achievements.

My urge is, it is never too late, to create a dialogue that can filter our differences and unite our objectives to create an atmosphere of friendship, whether in Ethiopia or elsewhere, as we are people of diverse cultures living in an environment of democracy, prosperity, tolerance, mutual respect and harmony under the supremacy of Law and Justice.

After all, we have more in common than we have that sets us apart. The way forward for Ethiopians is not through ethnic extraordinarily, rather it is through social and economical collectivism, and we have to enter into a new age of a post-ethnic philosophy.
Think about the impact of our unity wherever we are and the effect it can have is even greater back in Ethiopia.
We should never forget the power of Unity: "United we stand, divided we fall. Let us not split into factions which must destroy that union upon which our existence hangs."

Next time you want to point a finger in the air to brag about being "number one", just remember that the finger you point upwards will not do anything to build or protect the very ethnic you are so proud of.
Collectively we are powerful; individually we are always going to be impotent, letting others exploit our minds, resources and historical wealth while we stand apart bragging about our ancestors and past accolades.

Watching Barack Obama's historic speech about race and its omnipresence in the lives of all Americans, I was inspired by his honesty and his tedious assessment of our collective and individual deeds that perpetuate and divide one community against another. It was this powerful moment that led me to some profound thought and how my own actions perpetuate the intangible yet real walls that separate neighbor from neighbor, co-worker from co-worker and in some instances a friend from a friend.
I feel I am reinvigorated and ready to strengthen the spirit of my community which I always believed; we are many, united as one.

The experience that constructs my life narrative is that of being an Ethiopian and an African-Australian. Sometimes I feel blessed because I have a connection to my culture; at other times, I feel as though I walk an invisible line, wavering between my Ethiopian culture and my African-Australian culture.
It is this double life, this distinction between two cultures that challenges the notion that I have transcended the divide between the African-Australian culture and my Ethiopian culture.

The racial divide that Barack Obama spoke about is not contained within the quarters of black and white Americans; it is an undercurrent that exists within people of the same color and, in some cases, of the same country. It reaches out beyond black and white, extending the reaches of division on tiny basis of dark and light, African and African-American. The same goes here in Australia; the divisions are so vivid, between different African-Australians and amongst Ethiopians.
It is hypocrisy, if we believe in the grassroots mainstream of multiculturalism in Australia, when we don’t even acknowledge our own long standing diversity that have lived and fought together to preserve our country’s freedom to the present.

I assumed that my experience walking the line between my Ethiopian and African-Australian identities had cautioned this divisive mindset. I figured that I was enlightened, that I transcended the ethnic divides simply because I am a sincere friend of many cultures, Ethiopians, Australians, African-Australians and those from countries in almost every continent.
To one degree or another, we are all guilty of the practices that kept us divided; the very victims of discrimination can often be its perpetrators. The hatred that has taken centuries to fester claims as victims those who preach it and those who are its target.
Discrimination does not reside in the narrow confines of black and white; it permeates all societies, the impacts of which are felt across racial and ethnic lines.

Therefore, for us, all Ethiopians, who seek to see a united Ethiopia where equality, prosperity, social justice and harmony in diversity would be and inherent features, this is a great opportunity. I think time has once again presented us with an opportunity to see a room for commonalities in difference and toward to establishing trust for united action against the struggle for power among parties everywhere and dictators in Ethiopia.

I love my Ethiopian heritage, I love my African-Australian experience, and I love my Australian journey; however, my own journey towards true inclusion and unity is far from attained. In our own ways, we all have our faults and strengths, which contribute, to the divisions and unity that exists between our communities.
Even if we disagree on political matters and ideologies, whatever parties we may engage in, members of any social gatherings, different ethnic communities, we should always exercise the enticing power of mutual respect between us.

Nonetheless, we all are Ethiopians. In general, our failings do not define us, that we are not still, and that we can grow beyond the walls that have defined our experiences to attain the true meaning of unity; to achieve the essence of diversity, out of many united fronts, is like Menelik’s army triumphant in the face of adversity.

In good spirits